There is always going to be something wrong with every canon you come across, because nothing is perfect for everyone. :|a But hey, it's super-easy to be like "oh, you like this thing I do not, that's cool, let us talk about something we do both enjoy! huzzah!" and suddenly it's so much easier. :|a Myself, I enjoy SPN and Hetalia but I am so behind on both that hell if I really know what's going on, except for the occasional yelling from Katy and/or Alison. :Db

Re: communication, I think that possibly one of the hardest things to do is to recognize a problem within yourself and try to change it, especially when it's an ingrained habit. It's super-easy to get grumpy and defensive, because you're like, "I know it's a problem! I'm working on it! GO AWAY." But ultimately, you have to just try and find the happy medium between giving people what they want and keeping true to yourself, which is also difficult.